Life Story Book-Research says it is a window into the Soul!!

More than 5 years ago, there was some remarkable research out of Europe, which has been replicated in the U.S. which indicates the huge success one can experience by using the very old reminiscing technique with photo albums. The research indicated an enhanced effect by doing this "remembering" in a group setting with cohorts who also have Alzheimer's Disease. Since many people who are progressed in the disease, better remember themselves when they were 20-30 or 40 the photos an accompanying memories are profound. We have used the technique at Harbor House for more than 5 years and have seen tremendous results. Numerous persons with the disease will come up with words or phrases at the first introduction to the concept at a family night party to develop their "Life Story Book" with their family. These are often men or women who have not spoken for months. We will talk later about why the researchers believe it works, how to go about putting one together for your loved one in the prescribed manner, and how to use it. Tonight, however, we are going to talk about the concept and Mom's use of hers.

Mom's book got done several months after she came to live in assisted living at Harbor House. I of course should have done it immediately, because I understand how powerful it is and have seen the results. I, however, acted like the typical family and put it off. When we did go to the family night, however, Mom said to me, "where has Mom been hiding these pictures?" In the next breathe she said " this is just like having Betty Jean back with us." Betty Jean is a sister who died at the age of 10- about 60 years ago. Mom got big tears in her eyes, as did I!! In the next breathe she looked at her wedding picture and said your Dad was a very handsome man and he married a very beautiful women! I am not sure if she know at that moment she was talking about herself, but I didn't ask and just enjoyed the moment as I could tell she was also. The Life Story Book provided a wonderful night of memories and many after that.

At another time will discuss this technique further and some of the wonderful comments and memories it has "jarred" loose for Mom. Enough for now, however!

God Bless you and may She keep you in the palm of Her hand.